Summer Spending Done Right
Part 1 of a 4-Part Summer Series
Last summer I rappelled down a waterfall in the Costa Rican jungle with my boys. The flight there cost us about $30 a person.
I’ll explain that in a future article — because points travel is a whole conversation worth having. But I mention it because people around here ask me some version of the same question every spring: “So, what do you have planned this summer?”
I’ve built a bit of a reputation as the dad who always has a plan. What most people don’t know is that I built this system about fifteen years ago, when the Summit was a camping trip two hours from home and the budget was tight. The system didn’t change as our finances improved — it just had more to work with.
That same summer we hit Costa Rica, we also grabbed some kayaks with a few friends and spent an afternoon floating a local river. At one point, a beaver swam right up alongside our kayaks. The kids still talk about it. That trip cost almost nothing.
And one evening, we took my mom to the free airshow at the local airport and watched jets light up the sky.
Three very different experiences. One summer. One budget. One system.
Today I want to walk you through it — because whether your summer spending budget is $500 or $5,000, the same approach works.
What Most Finance Experts Get Wrong About Summer
Spending money on experiences doesn’t get a lot of love in the personal finance world. Some experts treat it like a guilty pleasure — something you do after you’ve checked all the responsible boxes.
I disagree. Respectfully, but firmly.
We’ve spent the last six months building your foundation together — safety nets, debt strategy, investing basics. That work matters. But so does this question: what is the point of climbing if you never stop to enjoy the view?
Your kids are growing up. Life is short. You’ve worked hard, and summer is one of the few stretches of the year where the whole family has space to breathe together.
Planned, intentional summer spending on experiences isn’t a detour from the climb. It’s part of it.
The Three Layers of an Epic Summer
I take whatever summer budget we have and sort it into three layers. Every year, same system.
Layer 1: The Summit
This is your one big bucket list experience for the summer. The thing you’ll talk about for years.
It doesn’t have to be international — it just has to feel epic to your family. A national park road trip. A week at a lake cabin. A camping adventure somewhere you’ve never been. One per summer. Give it the budget it deserves, and if you can, book it early. Prices are almost always cheaper in January than in June.
Layer 2: The Day Hikes
These are your medium-range experiences — memorable without being extravagant.
A kayak trip down a local river. A weekend at a waterpark. A baseball game. A day trip somewhere new. These fill the calendar between the Summit and everyday life. Aim for two or three depending on your budget, and don’t underestimate them. Some of our best memories have come from a $40 afternoon on the water.
Layer 3: The Boredom Busters
This is where the magic actually happens — and it’s the layer most families skip.
Boredom Busters are the low-cost, high-creativity activities that fill in all the gaps. A free airshow. A neighborhood game of flashlight tag after dark. A new set of pickleball paddles. A backyard movie night. Fireworks at the park with grandma.
These aren’t filler. They’re the connective tissue of a great summer. When there’s nothing big on the calendar and the kids are starting to melt into the couch, you pull from the list — and suddenly the day has a plan.
The families who have an epic summer aren’t always the ones with the biggest budget. They’re the ones who never run out of ideas.
Your Assignment Before Next Friday
Here’s what I want you to do this week.
Set your summer budget. Sit down and figure out what you realistically have available for summer fun. Not what you wish you had — what’s actually there. If the number is $1,000, that’s a solid Layer 2 experience and a full Boredom Buster list. That can be a genuinely great summer.
If money is tight this year, lean hard into Layer 3. Free festivals, library programs, state park trails, an airshow, a river walk. Summer doesn’t have a minimum spend requirement — but it does reward a plan.
Then make your three lists. Dream a little. What would your Summit look like this year? What are a couple of Day Hike ideas your family would love? And start a running Boredom Buster list you can pull from all summer long.
Don’t overthink it. This is supposed to be fun.
Next week we’re getting into vacation planning — how memberships, timing, and a little strategy can make a real trip more affordable than you think. It’s one of my favorite topics, and I think it’ll change how you look at summer expenses going forward.
You’ve done the hard work this spring. Now let’s make sure you actually enjoy the climb.
See you at the top.









