Black Friday: Don’t Let a “Deal” Become a Debt Sentence
We see a flash sale, and our brain just shuts off, fixated on the “deal.” The truth is, that high of saving money now quickly becomes the stress of having less money for the next six months. We can’t let a weekend sale jeopardize our long-term goals of achieving financial freedom.
Right now, you are laser-focused on conquering your Dual Ascent—saving for college and retirement simultaneously. That’s a serious, focused climb. But what’s the single biggest rock that can trip you up this weekend?
It’s the sheer force of uncontrolled spending that starts right now.
This Friday is Black Friday. For retailers, it’s the starting gun—a race to grab everyone’s money as fast as they can. For us, who are on a decisive quest for financial freedom, clarity, and control—what I call The Financial Ascent—this needs to be the starting bell for the most intentional spending season of the year.
The core of our “Monthly Money” philosophy is simple: consistent action over time. And the most critical action you can take today is defining your limits. Don’t let your wallet run the show.
The Zero-Debt Christmas Challenge: Your Path to Financial Freedom
The “Zero-Debt Christmas Challenge” is your absolute, non-negotiable commitment for the entire holiday season:
You will not acquire a single penny of new, high-interest credit card debt this month, especially for gifts.
Think about it. If you drop $1,000 on a new TV and put it on a credit card, you have effectively told your future self: “I am willing to pay extra for this gift, and I am willing to sacrifice my January savings goal to do it.” That’s not a deal; that’s a contract with complexity.
A responsible Ascender views their paycheck as a series of obligations: Future Savings first, then current needs. Passing the Zero-Debt Challenge means walking away from a purchase that forces you to use borrowed money, securing your peace of mind and accelerating your climb toward financial freedom.
The Monthly Money Black Friday Action Plan
To ensure Black Friday moves you closer to financial freedom, not further from it, here are the three concrete steps you need to take before you see your first email flyer.
1. The 15-Minute Budget Freeze (The Hard Cap)
Before you log onto a single website, open your bank account and look at the actual cash you have right now. The clock is ticking toward the new year, and you need a hard line.
- Your Action: Set a firm, non-negotiable Monthly Holiday Cap based only on the cash you have on hand. This is the only money available for everything this season (gifts, food, travel, decorations, etc.).
- The Clarity: If your cap is $1,500, that’s the hard limit. Don’t look at available credit; look at available cash. Staying under this cap is the only way to successfully complete the Zero-Debt Christmas Challenge.
2. The Two-List Strategy (The Non-Negotiable Filter)
The most common trap is buying a “great deal” for something you never needed in the first place. You are not buying things; you are buying against your list.
- Your Action: Create two simple lists:
- Needs: Specific gifts for specific people that you know you will buy regardless of a sale.
- Wants: Non-essential items, upgrades, or things you wish you could get.
- The Clarity: Stick exclusively to the Needs List. If a purchase will force you to use a credit card and break the Zero-Debt Christmas Challenge, it doesn’t matter how good the deal is—you must walk away.
3. The Savings Power Move (The Dual Ascent Reinvestment)
We need to shift the emotional reward from buying to saving. This is the ultimate move for building financial freedom.
- Your Action: Identify a high-pressure, tempting purchase that you successfully rejected because it would have broken your No-Debt rule (e.g., that $400 tablet you almost bought). Now, take the money you were going to spend (the $400) and immediately redirect it.
- The Result: Make an extra deposit: $400 into your 529 college savings account, or perhaps an extra payment toward an existing debt. You get the same rush of instant action, but this time, it moves you toward your goals instead of away from them. This is how you reclaim control of the Dual Ascent.
Confidence, Not Consumption
You don’t need things; you need financial freedom.
Black Friday is designed to create a sense of urgency and scarcity, but as an Ascender, you know better. This holiday season, you are building a legacy of clarity for your family. Complete the Zero-Debt Christmas Challenge this month, and I promise you will feel proud, purposeful, and ready for your ascent in the new year.
